moving out to independence

Nothing spells independence better than moving out of the family home to one’s own space. The idea connotes doing whatever one pleases; freedom at its finest. However, this also puts a degree of responsibility on one’s shoulder. It is important to determine one’s preparedness for all of these responsibilities before plunging into the decision to move.

The first and most important question would be the ability to support oneself. In this part, one thinks about whether to rent or buy a property, and how much can be allotted for the rent or the mortgage. Moving out does not stop at paying the rent. There are living expenses, utility bills, and transportation costs among others.

This is where budgeting comes in handy. Whether planning the budget with an allowance or a salary, it is important to stay within one’s spending boundaries to avoid running short of funds. It will also be a good idea to have some form of savings or available loan to turn to in case the need arises.

Apart from the financial consideration, moving out to a new address requires emotional and psychological readiness. For those who are very close to their parents or siblings, suddenly living on their own can be lonely and they may undergo homesickness. If this is the case, then moving out with a friend will be a good choice.

If the main reason for moving out is privacy, it is important to choose a home or apartment with separate rooms for each of you and to clarify house rules early on to avoid any conflict.

Living on one’s own also entails discipline and the presence of mind to respond to any circumstances. Menial jobs such as house chores and errands become important activities and solving common household problems become part of one’s everyday tasks. For those who are used to sharing the household chores in their parents’ house, these will be easy. For those who are not, it will be a wise move to start acquainting with these activities before moving out.

Relocating can be a daunting task for anyone, but the challenges can be more overwhelming for first timers who are just starting to get a feel of living on one’s own. With all the sudden responsibilities, many are surprised and find themselves moving back to their parents’ home after several months. However, with proper planning and preparation, the challenges can be turned into opportunities for learning and can bring a sense of pride for oneself.