The holidays offer a whole cocktail of emotions for us to absorb from annoyance to sentiment to joy. Although many of us joke around about wishing we could skip the holidays with family, when we actually get granted our wish, we may actually want to give it back. Having to move during the holidays is super inconvenient and not fun, but sometimes it is just unavoidable. The following tips will help you handle needing to transition during a time when you are supposed to be getting your merry on.
Do not Idealize
Like the quote at the top of the blog says, sometimes we build up this mystique around the holidays that isn’t exactly accurate. Family can be annoying. Cooking and shopping are a lot of work. Generally, we end up dropping tons of money during the holidays. Being able to skip some of all of that may be a blessing in disguise.
Do not Overbook
If you are still going to try to attend some holiday events, make sure that you do not spread yourself to thin. There is a whole lot of work that needs to be done before moving day, so it is okay to say ‘no’ to some invites. Anyone who has moved, which is most people, will understand why you didn’t have the time to make it to their holiday gathering.
Just because you have a whole lot to do, doesn’t mean that you have to skip everything. Sometimes take a break for a minor celebration, get together or even shopping spree can provide us with a system reset that will allow us to work more efficiently when we return to toiling away at getting this move done.
Celebrate Early or Late
Who says that you have to celebrate holidays on the exact day that everyone else is? If you feel like you may be too busy that day, do it another day, month or whatever. There is nothing wrong with being a little non-traditional to help you celebrate the holidays in a proper manner.
Skip Major Decorations
Moving is a lot of work, trust us. The last thing you want to do is have to worry about is moving around a bunch of decorations during any process of the move. Maybe put out a couple of small decorations if you must, but otherwise consider skipping out on the whole decorating thing this year.
Skype with Family and Friends
Make sure to either call or even skype with family and friends if you can’t be with them on the holidays. You may miss their physical presence, but having a little bit of contact will help tide you over spending the holidays away from them.
Plan Out Where/What you Will Eat
During the holidays most places close, so it is a good idea to plan ahead. It is bad enough not being able to indulge in an all-out holiday meal, but you don’t to end up starving due to the fact nothing worthwhile is open. Either scout out restaurants that may be open beforehand, or you can plan making a holiday meal of some sort.
Have Mini Celebrations Prepared
If you are in transit or in the middle of move during the holidays, still have a plan for a small celebration. Whether it is opening up a nice bottle of wine and cuddling, or going on a tour of Christmas lights, find and schedule a way to be festive.
Prepare the Kids in a Good Way
Make it an adventure! Kids often pick up on how we feel about things, so do not sound sad that you are going to miss out on the holiday, but instead let them know it is going to be fun. You may even convince yourself that it is going to be enjoyable.
There is Always Next Year
The great things about the holidays is that come around annually. Even if you do miss out on this year’s festivities, you can make up for it next year by going all out.